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Post by mrsbear21 on May 25, 2022 21:08:03 GMT
Keep everything crossed. I think it's going to be a bit gruelling.
LO's FF sent through prep questions pre-panel to our SW at 7:30pm this evening. These are not official questions from panel. Just what the FF and SW want to make sure we have thought about in preparation.
They included the gem "what lessons will you (adopters) take from the previous failed placement and how will you be mindful of them going into your placement......"
Like this isn't something we've been asking them about since the beginning.... The people who actually were involved in it.
To say our SW and Mr Bear were unimpressed is an understatement. As for me, I've decided these muck ups are a big part of why we're doing this. We're not just in that room for us.
Will update again tomorrow.
We have a 9ish meeting with panel chair, 11:30am pre-meeting with LO's FF, panel at 1pm and post panel meeting with LO's FF at 2:30pm.
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Post by leo on May 25, 2022 22:17:22 GMT
Blimey, that's a full on day!
Good luck. Looking forward to hearing the good news tomorrow.
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Post by flutterby on May 26, 2022 5:39:28 GMT
Good luck MrsBear.
Incredible that you should heed lessons as if you had been the decision maker in the past.
Still, hope it all goes well for you today. Keep us updated, I'm sure you will.
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Post by moo on May 26, 2022 7:27:32 GMT
Good Luck Mrs B....
I Think I Would Be Tempted To Reply Firstly With ... Well I Would Be Asking FF Team How Sure They Were Of The Research Into The Strength Of The Match?!!
You & Mr B Have Researched Thoroughly & Clearly The Meetings This Week Have Gone Well With No Shocks Or Surprises.....
My Experience At Matching Panel Was Amazing, One Of The Best Of The Whole Journey, I Hope It Is For You Too xxxx
Cannot Wait For Your Update Tonight.....Very Best Of Luck xxxx
Xx moo 🐮
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Post by mrsbear21 on May 26, 2022 15:13:51 GMT
WE'RE MATCHED!
Panel didn't finish until gone 3pm and then we had a very tense 20mins waiting for the call back. But the decision was unanimous (with no recommendations to mitigate vulnerabilities).
We're very happy. Albeit tomorrow the real work begins 😊
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Post by moo on May 26, 2022 17:32:09 GMT
Yayyyyyyyy
Congraulations..............
So No.... Now The Exciting But Hard Stuff Really Starts...... Let's Party xxxx
Xx moo 🐮
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Post by mrsbear21 on May 26, 2022 18:05:31 GMT
😁 Thanks Moo!
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Post by leo on May 26, 2022 19:30:04 GMT
Oh fantastic. Congratulations!
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Post by mrsbear21 on May 26, 2022 19:46:31 GMT
Thanks you Leo. So looking forward to meeting him. 😁
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Post by moo on May 26, 2022 20:05:18 GMT
Ooh.... Amost Forgot What Is Little Cub's Forum Name??
Xx moo 🐮
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Post by flutterby on May 26, 2022 21:05:29 GMT
Congrats MrsBear! Keep pushing for support. And make sure you get a bit of downtime before you meet your little boy. Exciting times ahead. xxx
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Post by mrsbear21 on May 28, 2022 9:07:52 GMT
Thanks Flutterby. The real work starts here! 😊
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Post by mrsbear21 on May 28, 2022 9:10:20 GMT
And Moo, I'm still pondering forum names. It'll be bear related & Little Cub is one of the options! 😏
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Post by serrakunda on May 30, 2022 9:42:08 GMT
Ooh how did I miss this ! congratulations !!!! now for the fun bit
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Post by mrsbear21 on Jun 4, 2022 21:26:47 GMT
Watching the Jubliee celebrations has inspired me to give LO the forum name Paddington.
FC has set us the mostly lovely mix of photos today. 😍
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Post by serrakunda on Jun 5, 2022 8:58:10 GMT
Welcome to Paddington !!
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Post by moo on Jun 5, 2022 14:44:09 GMT
Fabulous....
Saw It Too Absolutely Loved It....
Perfect Name Welcomexxx
Bring On The Marmalade Sandwiches.xxx...
Xx moo 🐮
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Post by gilreth on Jun 5, 2022 18:25:12 GMT
Missed this entirely - but I have been away for a week and busy marking. Congratulations Mrs B - and what a lovely name for your LO.
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Post by leo on Jun 5, 2022 20:33:02 GMT
Lovely name! When's the next step towards bringing him home?
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Post by mrsbear21 on Jun 5, 2022 20:49:16 GMT
Thanks All!
We're currently waiting for the ADM confirmation and matching certificate. That's expected this week.
Assuming that comes through as expected, Paddington will be told on 15 June and given our book (which we finished off this weekend). Then we get to meet him for the first time on the 18th! 😊
Seems like an age away but at least I can count the days down (unlike panel).
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