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Post by serrakunda on May 3, 2022 19:12:17 GMT
So the hansom one is nearly 18, we are 10 years as a family. I wrote on another forum that I expected nothing and hoped for everything - he has surpassed my wildest expectations and proved more than a few social workers wrong. I'm so proud of him
But as he steps into adulthood, so its time to think about my future. I've been plotting and planning for some time and today set out on my first steps towards a new life.
I have applied to be a foster carer with the aim of leaving the civil service around this time next year.
Who knows what, or who, the future will bring us - but I'm excited about it holds
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Post by leo on May 3, 2022 20:20:32 GMT
That's amazing news. What a journey the two of you have been on.
All you've seen, heard and done these last ten years will stand you in such good stead. I hope Social Services realise how very lucky they will be to have you.
You must be so proud of Simba being able to support you in this. Such compassion and courage from him.
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Post by serrakunda on May 20, 2022 16:11:46 GMT
And we are on our way,
first day of training today, medical in two weeks, forms filled in
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Post by leo on May 20, 2022 19:51:36 GMT
Wow! I really hope the training that is given to Foster Carers reflects what we all as adopters know about trauma, attachment, special needs etc. Could be very interesting.
Such a big new step. Good luck!
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Post by mudlark on May 20, 2022 22:48:10 GMT
Great journey ahead , you certainly don't let the grass grow under your feet Serra!
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Post by flutterby on May 21, 2022 7:01:35 GMT
Good luck, Serra. Hope this is the beginning of good years to come. With your expertise and dedication you will make a fantastic foster carer.
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Post by mrsbear21 on May 21, 2022 9:24:59 GMT
I have a lot of admiration for you taking on all the forms and SS and hard work (but in a new way) again. Obviously I'm right at the beginning, but at the moment I can't imagine having that within me. All the very best.
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Post by serrakunda on May 30, 2022 9:43:40 GMT
Well things are moving quickly
already done 3 days Skills to Foster training.
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Post by leo on Jun 17, 2022 10:56:38 GMT
How long is the whole process/how many stages? Presumably you go through a panel process similar to adopters?
I am half in awe of you and half jealous!
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Post by serrakunda on Jun 24, 2022 18:35:34 GMT
sorry I missed your post Leo
yes its a similar process to adoption in that I have to pass a panel
Training is much better, as well as the three day prep course there are 7 mandatory training modules, plus other optional ones, Also have a massive evidence folder to complete, on how I meet the fostering standards.
If adopters had the additional training modules they would be better prepared.
its going much quicker than I thought, need to slow them down a bit
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Post by leo on Jun 24, 2022 20:23:44 GMT
That's a bit bonkers isn't it - but good to know at least foster carers are getting useful training.
Does sound a bit of a whirlwind, I should think you and Simba both need time to process and prepare.
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Post by sivier on Jun 25, 2022 15:51:44 GMT
Good luck Serrakunda! We applied to be foster carers and went through the course (very interesting process). In the end we felt that it might be too unsettling for AD at this stage, as her needs are escalating, but it's something we'll consider at a later stage. They'd be very lucky to have you.
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Post by flutterby on Sept 21, 2022 3:40:35 GMT
How is going with the fostering assessment Serra? It's been very quiet on here generally (I'm certainly guilty of not having posted much) x
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Post by serrakunda on Sept 21, 2022 17:08:44 GMT
hello flutterby
Gathering apace.
Panel is on 14 December, busy doing training, SW visits, decluttering the house and getting some work done.
I think SW has someone in mind for us!
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Post by flutterby on Sept 22, 2022 5:29:58 GMT
That's exiting news Serra. Good luck with it all. Have you got a certain age range etc. in mind? Short term, long term?
I'm sure you'll make a fantastic foster mum.
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Post by moo on Sept 22, 2022 6:51:01 GMT
Fab update serrakunda...
Exciting Times Ahead xx
Xx moo 🐮
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Post by serrakunda on Sept 22, 2022 13:56:42 GMT
by agreement with Simba we are sticking with boys
late primary, early secondary, SW has mentioned the name of an 11 year old to me
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