Post by beckabecks on Jan 31, 2020 14:51:00 GMT
Hi,
Was wondering if anyone else had experienced anger towards adoptive parents having a past before their little one arrived. My son has been with me three years now, but still gets angry at me having had a past before him. He hates photos of me from before he was even born, let alone before he was part of the family and hates the idea of me knowing people that he doesn’t. My sw hadn’t come across this before. It definitely helped when I said it made me feel sad that I missed out on important things from his past and how I wish I’d known him in his baby photos, mainly curious to know if others have experienced this.
Was wondering if anyone else had experienced anger towards adoptive parents having a past before their little one arrived. My son has been with me three years now, but still gets angry at me having had a past before him. He hates photos of me from before he was even born, let alone before he was part of the family and hates the idea of me knowing people that he doesn’t. My sw hadn’t come across this before. It definitely helped when I said it made me feel sad that I missed out on important things from his past and how I wish I’d known him in his baby photos, mainly curious to know if others have experienced this.
