Post by aprilshowers on Jun 4, 2016 10:38:56 GMT
although I have set my bar low I am still surprised that I am often let down, I have tried to see it from the outside but sadly the things I would do are not what my children would do in a similar situation...even though we offer support all the way.
So more work on my part, or should I, should I just accept that I should have no expectations then therefor wont get it wrong.
but for the time being, there is no birthday card for me from littly, middly has stuff for me but needs her dad to go and get it...no mention of seeing me, bigly well not heard from him this week.
they are getting on with their lives, for those of you who remember me this is our worst time of year being all our birthdays in fairly quick sucession, on top of that grandson number 3 entered the world and is a sweet little thing, but as always with our kids everything is very much on their terms and we are just an afterthought in the grand scheme of things.
Grandchild number 4 will arrive in the autumn, there is very little in the way of communication with littly so any info I get is third hand, she recently had a LAC review the only one I have never attended...I lost my mum in april and had used up all my compassionate leave and to be honest I've had enough of these pointless meetings, nothing changes, no support to build bridges etc, but in the post was the minutes of sorts, littly does not want to see us...shame that, her brother tries hard to get her to see us but that normally ends in tears. so it is likely that I will know nothing of this baby, all I do know is that she is not with the dad and now has a new boyfriend who has said he will support her through the pregnancy even though its not his...more drama and worries.
So more work on my part, or should I, should I just accept that I should have no expectations then therefor wont get it wrong.
but for the time being, there is no birthday card for me from littly, middly has stuff for me but needs her dad to go and get it...no mention of seeing me, bigly well not heard from him this week.
they are getting on with their lives, for those of you who remember me this is our worst time of year being all our birthdays in fairly quick sucession, on top of that grandson number 3 entered the world and is a sweet little thing, but as always with our kids everything is very much on their terms and we are just an afterthought in the grand scheme of things.
Grandchild number 4 will arrive in the autumn, there is very little in the way of communication with littly so any info I get is third hand, she recently had a LAC review the only one I have never attended...I lost my mum in april and had used up all my compassionate leave and to be honest I've had enough of these pointless meetings, nothing changes, no support to build bridges etc, but in the post was the minutes of sorts, littly does not want to see us...shame that, her brother tries hard to get her to see us but that normally ends in tears. so it is likely that I will know nothing of this baby, all I do know is that she is not with the dad and now has a new boyfriend who has said he will support her through the pregnancy even though its not his...more drama and worries.