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Post by aprilshowers on Sept 17, 2015 9:32:28 GMT
So to explain....2003 our three children move in with us, 2005 we finally get to court, 2009 we call in Post Adotpion to help one child with identity and his past, 2009 CP get involved after allegations...CP conference, children on at risk register...child on child emotional and sexual abuse.....various assesments, appointments, meetings, visits, we lurch from one crisis to another eventually we have to move for the safety of the children, 2011 transfered to our new LA, children now classed as CIN, 2012 one child leaves home going back to old LA, as he is still CIN he is referred back to them...they never contact him or our current LA, he returns home but is now 18 and off everyones books...2013 after both our girls were arrested and charged for domestic violence and criminal damage to us they are accommodated under section 20 still both CIN, today I get an e-mail from one of the girls new SW who says that me and hubby are not recorded on their records as the parents and can I supply our dates of birth......Well there you go.
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Post by bop on Sept 17, 2015 9:59:58 GMT
Not quite sure what to say to that...
((hugs)) for you....
Bop
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Post by damson on Sept 17, 2015 13:08:21 GMT
Cue hysterical laughter but no rolling on the floor please, this is a dignified forum  |
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Post by corkwing on Sept 17, 2015 15:04:31 GMT
Wry head shaking here...
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Post by pingu on Sept 17, 2015 17:05:43 GMT
Whi the heck DID they have down, or do children come from under gooseberry bushes according to sw
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Post by larsti on Sept 17, 2015 18:04:39 GMT
Ridiculous 
What did you say? ?
In those sorts of situations (with any sort of professional) I tend to just answer the question, rather than ask a few questions of my own and draw attention to their incompetence. Your are a bit more feisty though April. Did you let them have it? 
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Post by wibbley on Sept 17, 2015 22:43:42 GMT
Wow
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Post by aprilshowers on Sept 18, 2015 8:11:11 GMT
larsti, I respoded to the e-mail stating I was somewhat surprised that they did not have that ifo as we have bee working with their departments since july 2011 and I would be happy to meet and provided more informatio....but she will get the info wanted or not.  |
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Post by larsti on Sept 18, 2015 16:05:29 GMT
I was interested that your timing between placement and seeking help from post adoption is the same as ours Aprilshowers (we are 6 years in and have finally decided we need to enlist their help/get funding...if possible).
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