Rally useful article. Relevant even of your kids dont hade ODD. I was intrigued by the suggestion of alternative way of doing therapy and parenting, that acknowledged that for so e kids consequences based stuff cant work ! It also suggested an alternative approach which i would like to look into more ( if i had the time !!!) and which sounded a bit like what i do to some degree anyway. It gave the physiological reasons for the way the kids were, and had some very quotable sections for helping people understand about all this.
Mum to AS, Emperor (18) & AS, King (12), (10 & almost 7 at placement). Married to DH, Rockhopper.