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Post by twoplustwo on May 20, 2014 22:00:23 GMT
With Social Workers making arrangements without consulting us and expecting us to comply
With Sws getting annoyed if they can't get in touch with us immediately but who are happy to keep us waiting weeks for them to action anything.
With Sws failing to do their job properly and then blaming us when things go wrong
With Sws acting as if they are doing us a big favour when they finally get round to doing their job
With Sws putting their own personal schedules ahead of my child's needs
With Sws telling everyone how unreasonable we are when we are just trying to ensure they do what they ought to be doing
With Sws...
Not a great day today - no details - too identifying - but boy am I fed up.
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Fed Up
May 20, 2014 22:06:16 GMT
Post by cowgirl on May 20, 2014 22:06:16 GMT
Hugs. Hope you sleep well & get some energy for your next battle !
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Fed Up
May 21, 2014 6:52:32 GMT
via mobile
Post by esty (archive) on May 21, 2014 6:52:32 GMT
Keep up the fight though you really shouldn't have to.
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May 21, 2014 8:08:02 GMT
Post by nzhb on May 21, 2014 8:08:02 GMT
Cor - can I identify with this! Not our SW , who is good & helpful & I like her.......but with other people being unhelpful/systems/having to deal with so many fragmented teams All we want is the best we can get for our AD & we want to live as happy a family life as we can.....
Non adoptive parents have no idea what most of us go through.
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May 21, 2014 8:12:54 GMT
Post by Deleted on May 21, 2014 8:12:54 GMT
Would love to get that printed on a T-shirt to wear Twoplustwo.
Wonder if they'd actually read it!
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Post by sivier on May 21, 2014 9:25:38 GMT
Feel for you twoplustwo, sounds hard going, it really shouldn't be this hard, should it?
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Fed Up
May 21, 2014 13:55:31 GMT
Post by justbserene11 on May 21, 2014 13:55:31 GMT
Sending hugs.
Incompetence is soooooo frustrating.
try to document everything (so there is a paper trail) so that incompetence can eventually be highlighted
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Post by swimchic on May 21, 2014 19:15:46 GMT
Sending hugs. Incompetence is soooooo frustrating. try to document everything (so there is a paper trail) so that incompetence can eventually be highlighted Completely agree.
Have you considered going to the Head of Adoption?
Sending you a very big hug.
Swimchic xx
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Post by twoplustwo on May 21, 2014 19:22:56 GMT
Have you considered going to the Head of Adoption? Sending you a very big hug. Swimchic xx Feeling stronger today and have done exactly what you suggested swimchic. I'l let you know the outcome.
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Fed Up
May 22, 2014 5:57:10 GMT
Post by moo on May 22, 2014 5:57:10 GMT
Hugs all.... This deffo is one of the most frustrating clubs I have ever joined!
Xx. moo. Xx
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Fed Up
May 22, 2014 16:35:41 GMT
Post by swimchic on May 22, 2014 16:35:41 GMT
Well done you! Good luck with everything, its a shame that you have to go to the top, but if we don't fight for our children, who will?
Sending you a massive hug and wishing you well. Please do let me know how it goes.
Swimchic xx
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