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Post by milly on Mar 14, 2014 11:43:43 GMT
I am in an unusual position, maybe, as my younger dd has no SEN or behavioural or social difficulties. Her minor emotional wobbles are handled well by her school. Her head has asked me what provision we would like her to have under the PPP, but we can't really think of any beyond some adoption / attachment related training for the school - but even that would be for their general use as we feel there haven't been any issues with dd that they haven't understood. He suggested some kind of therapy but I am dubious about the likely quality of it and don't want her taken out of lessons to go. (We have considered arranging therapy for dd out of school but are waiting till she is older as her issues aren't that severe). The school has a few other adoptees but not many and are a small one form entry primary.
Does anyone have any ideas or advice for us? (TBH I did ensure the school applied for PPP in respect of dd, but just to make sure they were aware rather than with anything in mind)
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Post by kanga2 on Mar 14, 2014 12:00:41 GMT
You didn't mention education generally (only SEN), so does she need any help with that? I'm hoping Piglet may get some extra help with her spelling.
Otherwise using the money to train up on adoption / attachment could well turn out to be money well spent in the next few years.
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Post by leo on Mar 14, 2014 20:47:51 GMT
If your child genuinely currently doesn't need particular support then I'd maybe consider asking them to spend it something that would benefit a larger group of children. One of my current bug bears is how little schools invest in personnel and equipment to help make playtimes more structured (for those who need it) and more creative. A midday assistant for a year costs about the same as the PP+; they could train one up to be a play leader and actually engage groups of children on the playground with structured games and setting up other activities beforehand that other children can then just pick up and use as and when they want to. This would benefit your child at times as well as others and would be a long term resource for the whole school community but would also mean that if your daughter did begin to struggle as she hits that social nightmare pre-puberty stage that Year 6 girls are horribly capable of, there would already be someone in place who could be used as a more individual support. This would need to be an additional member of staff employed particularly for play skills, not just re-deploying a current midday assistant.
Another alternative would be to ask them to consider paying for/buying in something for the whole school as a one off event that they wouldn't usually be able to afford but that your child would particularly enjoy - so if she's creative then a puppeteer and puppet making workshop or a drama workshop, if she's into writing stories then a storyteller to come in and work with the children for a day, or a paid-for school trip out somewhere. Things like that can really lift the pressure/stress and atmosphere of a school and would have a positive effect on all the staff and children - which would then obviously be good for your daughter too.
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Post by kstar on Mar 15, 2014 16:49:30 GMT
That sounds like a great idea. In a similar vein, Starlets school recently spent a PTA donation on playground equipment, including a bench. The bench is called the "buddy bench" and children are encouraged to go there if they feel lonely, sad, left out, ill etc. All the children are then asked to watch out for children on the bench and be especially kind to them, for example inviting them to join in. Starlet has used it a few times already - mostly because she likes the attention from older girls!
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Post by moo on Mar 17, 2014 6:55:48 GMT
Love the bench idea....
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2014 9:59:48 GMT
My DD's school also had a buddy bench.
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Post by milly on Mar 31, 2014 21:45:32 GMT
Thanks for all the ideas. In the end we decided to focus it on dd's current needs, despite them not being either adoption related or high priority, and the head seems to think they are fine. One is over her physical skills - she was slow to develop some gross motor skills and still feels she suffers in comparison to others eg often complains she can't run fast (she is not that slow in reality, but is quite defeatist about it). The other was re pushing her on in maths - she loves it and achieves well but has recently complained her work at school is too easy and in fact insisted we tell her teacher at parents evening (!) , so we thought school might as well focus on that a bit if they are willing to. Will see what they come up with.....
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Post by barge on May 21, 2014 20:14:41 GMT
Had a meeting with SENCO today and discussed PPP funding a "playworker" to start work at morning break and finish after lunch each day and maybe 1:1 social skills in the time between morning break and lunch. She's got to get it past the head as she usually doesn't have a say in how it's spent!!!!!!
As DD is entering Y6 next year, we also spoke about getting extra support in for SATs in regard to relaxation techniques like mindfulness sessions etc
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