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Post by serrakunda on Mar 13, 2014 23:10:29 GMT
Due to see dad and little bro on Saturday. Texted him about 6 today to check if all ok. No reply yet. He lives with that flipping phone in his hand, Simba needs the contact so I will do it, but I have days of stress leading up to it about whether or not they are going to turn up. Same every time
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Post by Deleted on Mar 14, 2014 3:28:05 GMT
So hard Serrakunda you have my sympathies. Men think differently to us ladies. He probably has no idea of the anxiety he is causing and will wonder why you are fretting.
I have just emailed my ex to tell him to contact YDD as she was here yesterday saying she hadn't seen him for over two weeks and asking me when she was going to see him again (as if I can keep tabs on him anymore). He doesn't get that she needs to hear from him and needs to see him on a regular basis. SS had a go at him about this before saying he needs to do regular phonecalls and regular contact, but he still forgets and I still have to remind him to do this despite us no longer being together anymore, That's what men don't seem to get. It might not be said but they miss their Dads and need to know they are still loved/thought about.
Hope you get a reply today. x
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Post by moo on Mar 14, 2014 5:39:20 GMT
Hugs serrakunda so get your stress....
It must be soo hard trying to protect simba from a fickle BF who is a bit all over the place & a tad disorganised.... I know how much my two just 'have' to know & have some things 'set in stone' just so they understand their place..... Some things are non negotiable & really 'have ' to happen.... Something that his BF just won't 'get'..... Hugs {{}}
So so tuff for you....
xx. moo. Xx
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Post by homebird on Mar 14, 2014 8:49:50 GMT
Its rotten waiting for a response isn't it. Adoptive mum of my daughters siblings messaged me through Facebook last month suggesting a meet up in May. I replied immediately. I know she has been online in the two weeks since I sent it but she hasn't replied. Hard on my daughter who is keen to see the others again as they don't communicate otherwise despite being "friends" on FB and it feels like they expect us to just fall in with their wishes which is sometimes a bit difficult as the older non adopted siblings do shift work and need to organise leave. :-(
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Post by serrakunda on Mar 15, 2014 21:11:33 GMT
Rearranged whole weekend so we could meet tomorrow, now dad not sure he can make it because he isn't feeling well. Won't say anything till I know for sure but I think I'll be left to pick up the pieces again
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Post by kstar on Mar 15, 2014 22:06:11 GMT
Not the same and not quite so traumatic, but we have been waiting pretty much since placement for FC to agree to a meet up :-( I would just give up but Starlet asks at least once a week, so really needs the closure. It's so hard watching them go through it - I dread to think how much worse it must be with a BP, especially as you always say it's positive for Simba on the whole.
Hope you get sorted :-( xx
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Post by sockthing on Mar 16, 2014 7:28:12 GMT
Sorry to hear this. Poor Simba. And poor you too as it sounds like it's all a bit hard work at the moment, with one thing and another.
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Post by moo on Mar 16, 2014 9:41:13 GMT
Hugs serrakunda.... For simba & you {{{}}}
Hope the the fallout is bearable
xx. moo. Xx
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Post by serrakunda on Mar 16, 2014 10:00:08 GMT
I have a very, very, disappointed little boy
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Post by daffin on Mar 16, 2014 10:40:55 GMT
Oh poor lad. Poor you. Hope you can distract him doing something lovely and active in the sunshine today.
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Post by serrakunda on Mar 16, 2014 19:31:17 GMT
Well, he has got on with life, like he always does. He didn't want to leave the house so we had a pyjama day, played board games in the garden, had strawberries and ice cream, kids next door came round to play. We have sweeties and are going to watch the space station live programme, but he's not a happy bunny
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Post by chotimonkey on Mar 16, 2014 20:57:37 GMT
Poor simba it's not fair
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Post by kstar on Mar 16, 2014 21:12:56 GMT
He just doesn't deserve it does he, life really isn't fair sometimes xx
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