Teenager in charge.???? Jan 13, 2014 21:00:55 GMT
Post by rlmjam on Jan 13, 2014 21:00:55 GMT
I'm a recluse in my own house again. Row because YDD couldn't get remote to work. She has inserted new batteries incorrectly and then I put them in and it worked!!! It wasn't the batteries. I had pushed a button she did not know about! ( She shouted) Had a chat with a friend today who thought it might help if I spent a bit more time with her ( I often work late. To ensure I get things done), thought it might be worth a try so sat down and suggested we watch Corrie, which we both like.... No! She wanted Hollyoaks. She knows I don't like that! Told me to get out of the lounge
when I refused, she then turned tele off saying nobody would watch it. EDD went out into conservatory to watch Holly oaks. When I went out and asked EDD to watch Hollyoaks in the lounge with YDD, thinking choose your battles, its really not worth it! EDD then threw a wobbly saying, why should she!!! argh! I said, dont worry, Im not feeling well so Im going to Bed (8:15). She screamed something at me but I dont know what it was! Now I'm stuck in my room. Not feeling that well anyway and I have to put up with these constant battles!!!. It's not about the tele it's the way she speaks to me and her whole attitude, I know I should feel in control, and she should feel I am in control, but it just isn't happening ! She obviously thinks shes in charge and to all intents and purpose, she is!! When I said it was my lounge, that I am the adult etc, she turned round with a menacing look on her face and said.... No it's not, it's dad's.... Get out!!! ( dad works away in London in the week.She doesn't do this who he,s here)
Just wondering... What would you do! Help!!!