Post by peartree on Dec 21, 2013 21:36:20 GMT
Good evening
It's a taboo but our son despite having complex trauma, attachment probs etc is pretty light weight on a day to day basis I think. The lying and juggling the shame he lives with and flings about is heavy but
Certainly, bearing in mind some of the very extreme trials of his sister- he probably ranks around the significant needs level
This weekend partridge is with his gf family
I am a little worried about how he'll manage socially with a 'new family' in his life and several texts have gone between us
At the end of the day I love him to bits
But
Partridge being away leaves our home with a different atmosphere
And painful as it is to admit it
Pip aged 6 as our bc and me plus mr pt feels so calm
Fun
Supportive and despite being fairly hectic due to Christmas
I'm struggling to describe the change of life feeling here
I've no idea why I'd never considered respite from being partridges mum but it's easy to overlook the sheer amount of trauma you're swallowing with the houses air
Do you find it different when your teens go out/ away? Is it like respite ?
It's a taboo but our son despite having complex trauma, attachment probs etc is pretty light weight on a day to day basis I think. The lying and juggling the shame he lives with and flings about is heavy but
Certainly, bearing in mind some of the very extreme trials of his sister- he probably ranks around the significant needs level
This weekend partridge is with his gf family
I am a little worried about how he'll manage socially with a 'new family' in his life and several texts have gone between us
At the end of the day I love him to bits
But
Partridge being away leaves our home with a different atmosphere
And painful as it is to admit it
Pip aged 6 as our bc and me plus mr pt feels so calm
Fun
Supportive and despite being fairly hectic due to Christmas
I'm struggling to describe the change of life feeling here
I've no idea why I'd never considered respite from being partridges mum but it's easy to overlook the sheer amount of trauma you're swallowing with the houses air
Do you find it different when your teens go out/ away? Is it like respite ?
