Learning a Blossom

peartree
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Married Adopter and S20 parent to blossom aged 17 and 2 others at home

Posts: 1,286

Learning a Blossom Nov 4, 2013 9:01:01 GMT via mobile

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Post by peartree on Nov 4, 2013 9:01:01 GMT

I'm forever learning about adoptiony things
The thing is
Blossom is very settled

And yesterday she was explaining if she got a new guitar she wouldn't smash it up
Like she did the last one

She's very clear
That's a decision- delivered autism styley

Her capacity to change and regulate at this time is astounding me
And I never thought it possible in a blossom

I'm learning a lot!

Mum to AS (19) who is home, AD ( 17) who isn't and BD (7). Lucked in when married my best friend and became a mummy. Partial to a cuddle and a cuppa tea....

ham ASB Posts: 1,536	Learning a Blossom Nov 4, 2013 10:02:13 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ham on Nov 4, 2013 10:02:13 GMT brilliant Blossom and brilliant Pear tree fingers crossed it will last
	Single mum to a mixture of BC and AC all young adults.

shadow ASB Posts: 1,117	Learning a Blossom Nov 4, 2013 10:59:44 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by shadow on Nov 4, 2013 10:59:44 GMT wow well done you and blossom - are things better now she had the ASD diagnosis and people are using it to help her?
	Mum a grown up DD

jollymummy ASB Married Adopter and Section 20 parent Posts: 589	Learning a Blossom Nov 4, 2013 17:43:57 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jollymummy on Nov 4, 2013 17:43:57 GMT That's great PT. She is really showing such progress lately. JM x
	Mum to twin girls (16) and a son (13). One of my girls is s20 and the other is in a mental health unit.

wibbley ASB Posts: 560	Learning a Blossom Nov 4, 2013 21:05:09 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wibbley on Nov 4, 2013 21:05:09 GMT Lovely

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Learning a Blossom Nov 4, 2013 21:33:30 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Nov 4, 2013 21:33:30 GMT Fab!! Music will certainly help her.

peartree ASB Married Adopter and S20 parent to blossom aged 17 and 2 others at home Posts: 1,286	Learning a Blossom Nov 7, 2013 11:40:33 GMT via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by peartree on Nov 7, 2013 11:40:33 GMT Have more to learn... Blossoms lovely moments are celebrated Then for a few days She's shut down Not going anywhere... I've a lot to learn Preserving myself from the heartbreak is a long tough learn
	Mum to AS (19) who is home, AD ( 17) who isn't and BD (7). Lucked in when married my best friend and became a mummy. Partial to a cuddle and a cuppa tea....

Post by peartree on Nov 4, 2013 9:01:01 GMT

Post by ham on Nov 4, 2013 10:02:13 GMT

Post by shadow on Nov 4, 2013 10:59:44 GMT

Post by jollymummy on Nov 4, 2013 17:43:57 GMT

Post by wibbley on Nov 4, 2013 21:05:09 GMT

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Post by peartree on Nov 7, 2013 11:40:33 GMT