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Post by moo on Nov 16, 2019 8:43:01 GMT
Yes sadly it is 😴
I too hope all friends are well & valiantly marching on xx
Wish things could go back to busy conversation & support xx
I think we are all struggling on with our now much older precious children xx
Many congrats about your much loved puppy.... my dogs are a constant joy xx & wonderful hot waterbottles snuggled up together on the comfy armchair when finally enjoying downtime at the end of each day xxxxx these getting chillier wet nightimes joyful xxx
Xx hugs xx
Xx moo xx
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Post by serrakunda on Nov 16, 2019 16:06:22 GMT
Not as quiet as the AUK forum!!!
Just been ridiculously busy, I've gone up to four days a week at week and finding it hard to adjust. Simba has had dental surgery, college open days, parents evening..........
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Post by chotimonkey on Nov 17, 2019 8:52:27 GMT
Bit of both. Things ticking on for matching on Wednesday, house filling with all the large baby stuff I was very happy to get rid of before, feeling like I can’t breathe till panel is over.
Battling school over howler being bullied, pushing camhs to get her support to deal with the emotional fallout.
Also dealing with the fallout from school stopping the out of class sessions curious george was doing in the afternoons because it doesn’t look good for Ofsted.
Can’t wait to have us all of school for intros and start reforming as a 6.
I’m not a natural wait-er
Xx
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Post by moo on Nov 17, 2019 13:23:25 GMT
Can't wait for news of the re-forming as a 6 xxx 🙈🙉🙊💋💖
Keep those monkeys out of school for as long as you can choti for intros 😉
Look up the ofsted website & lodge a complaint quick smart... monkeys school clearly are in preparation for ofsted no def date... might not get an inspection till September? .....Really 😨
Post again if you cannot find it xxxx
Xx hugs xxx
Xx moo xx
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Post by nzhb on Nov 18, 2019 23:53:56 GMT
I feel all I post is always negative and so trying to distance myself a bit more from it all. Realised that what ever I do, it is frowned upon by someone. Tired of fighting SS, care providers, keeping on an even keel with AD and also maiantining relationship with OH.
Trying to see myself as less of an adoptive mum, but more as a person myself.
As part of self care, self preservation by whatever means becomes more important.
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Post by moo on Nov 19, 2019 13:42:24 GMT
Sending hugs nzhb xx
Life sucks sadly when fighting for our children... we are the easiest to blame xxx
Xx moo xx
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Post by serrakunda on Nov 19, 2019 16:34:25 GMT
(((nzhb)))
I'm sure everyone would love to hear about what you get up to on your journey to becoming yourself again
I am now able to leave Simba alone in the house in the evening, I've started going out to theatre, cinema and gigs again - just like the old me |
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Post by mudlark on Nov 20, 2019 11:35:42 GMT
We have had months of building work, inside and outside the house, it has been very hard to manage with the children and so I haven't been around much. Things are a little problematic with Lapwing at the moment and I am looking at further therapy / life story for her. Peewit is doing well but come June will be starting school full time which might be tricky.
The good news is after years of waiting we have an allotment, and although not the best time of year to start has given the children such fun already, all that proprioceptive digging does them the world of good. Who knows next year maybe I will be able to have home grown sprouts on Christmas day!
It's so nice to hear snippets of news from others, the highs and the lows, I hope more will chip in when they can.
xx
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Post by serrakunda on Nov 20, 2019 13:31:58 GMT
Oh an allotment will be so much fun!!
still time to get onions in if you can get some sets and some fruit trees.
Maybe we should a dedicated allotmenteers thread.
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Post by mudlark on Nov 20, 2019 13:54:13 GMT
Peewit planted some broad beans yesterday, Lapwing some tulip bulbs and we are going to get some onions and garlic in on Saturday. An allotmenteers/gardening thread sounds good, nice to talk broad beans and curly kale instead of attachment and trauma sometimes!
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Post by moo on Nov 20, 2019 14:30:41 GMT
Oh woe so much manure here on the farm & no way of getting it to you all... it would be perfect, sh1t for all produce fruit, veg or flower.....bull, cow,horse or goose you could choose! 😉😤😶
Lovin the thought of sprouts, broad beans & everything home grown 😁 broad beans my absolute favourite....
Go girls keep posting your planned plantings 😄
Xx moo xx
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