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Post by shadow on Oct 21, 2013 10:55:57 GMT
The other day I had gone out before shadette was awake to a meeting I had told her about the night before
as she often doesn't listen at all to what I say I left a note on the stairs saying I had and put lots of love mum and lots of X's
it was till on the stairs when shadettes SW came and I saw the SW reading it - I know its only a small thing but I just feel our privacy is so invaded all the time and that profs feel they have to right to read a personal nore from me to my daughter
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Post by aprilshowers on Oct 21, 2013 11:16:42 GMT
Not unreasonable at all, nosey parker.  |
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Post by jollymummy on Oct 21, 2013 11:18:54 GMT
OMG! How nosey!Did you say anything to her? I would have made a big deal about picking it up and removing it from her sight so that she got embarrassed!! (But then I am not the most tactful of people!!)
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Post by shadow on Oct 21, 2013 11:41:52 GMT
for the visit this week I will have something like
Gone for my shift at the brothel - back later
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Post by ham on Oct 21, 2013 14:19:36 GMT
NO. just plain rude and ignorant SW.
I understand it is illegal to intercept mail so surely if something in the house is addressed to a person then the same rules should apply. I don't even read my children's birthday cards ( I know who they are from) without the courtesy of asking them if I can.
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Post by justbserene11 on Oct 21, 2013 14:37:13 GMT
You are not being unreasonable....in fact you are more than reasonable xx
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Post by Deleted on Oct 21, 2013 14:53:11 GMT
Gone for my shift at the brothel - back later Shadow I'm chuckling away to myself at that one - Go on do it I dare you!!   LOVE IT!! Glad to see you still have your sense of humour!  Or how about statring your next note to Shadette with a prefix of "to whom it may concern - this is a private note of love from me to my DD, could you kindly butt out and leave us something that is just ours!! Otherwise I'd leave next note in a sealed envelope addressed to Shadette!!!   |
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Post by fehrscaper on Oct 23, 2013 11:53:31 GMT
I would have been fuming as well. It was a private note!
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Post by shadow on Oct 23, 2013 13:35:49 GMT
Interesting - some people on AUK think it is right as SS have a duty of care
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Post by shadow on Oct 23, 2013 16:35:38 GMT
legally she is an adult in Scotland - then I get this message! "I have updated CAMHS via email regarding child protection concerns" I am now totally confused  |
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Post by jollymummy on Oct 23, 2013 19:38:32 GMT
What child protection concerns? The fact that you popped out and left her a note to remind her? (And she is apparently not a child!!) I get your confusion.
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Post by shadow on Oct 24, 2013 7:34:06 GMT
the child protection concerns refer to something that shadette did last week - but she is legally an adult so am a bit confused
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LOVE IT!! Glad to see you still have your sense of humour! 
