The other day I had gone out before shadette was awake to a meeting I had told her about the night before
as she often doesn't listen at all to what I say I left a note on the stairs saying I had and put lots of love mum and lots of X's
it was till on the stairs when shadettes SW came and I saw the SW reading it - I know its only a small thing but I just feel our privacy is so invaded all the time and that profs feel they have to right to read a personal nore from me to my daughter
Mum to 3. DS, Bigly (21), DD, Middly (19), & DD, Littly (18) with sibling trauma bond, (placed at 8, 6, & 5) none of them are living with us anymore, some contact with all of them but very much on their terms. Grandparents and enjoying it.
OMG! How nosey!Did you say anything to her? I would have made a big deal about picking it up and removing it from her sight so that she got embarrassed!! (But then I am not the most tactful of people!!)
Mum to twin girls (16) and a son (13). One of my girls is s20 and the other is in a mental health unit.
I understand it is illegal to intercept mail so surely if something in the house is addressed to a person then the same rules should apply. I don't even read my children's birthday cards ( I know who they are from) without the courtesy of asking them if I can.
Single mum to a mixture of BC and AC all young adults.
Shadow I'm chuckling away to myself at that one - Go on do it I dare you!! LOVE IT!! Glad to see you still have your sense of humour!
Or how about statring your next note to Shadette with a prefix of "to whom it may concern - this is a private note of love from me to my DD, could you kindly butt out and leave us something that is just ours!!
Otherwise I'd leave next note in a sealed envelope addressed to Shadette!!!