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Post by ham on Oct 17, 2015 1:49:23 GMT
Ds1and his girl friend are pregnant .unplanned but at 24 and 21 they are not minors. Ds1 forgot hi was suppose to talk to genetist and she has issues herself but I do like her. So baby may well have special needs. They life with her parents and her mum will be highly involved but she also has needs. And her dad has anger issues and already told them if he ever hurts the baby I will ring ss. just hope their mental health workers put support in place but ds1 will reject it and they are probably not bad enough to have any involvement at this stage. having said that ds1 is good with children but not sure after sleepless night etc but fingers crossed. now just need to know what I am going to be called - nan (sorry) sounds old and my mum is grandma. Might stick with something silly like Ham
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Post by corkwing on Oct 17, 2015 8:41:16 GMT
What you're called is a big decision: you could be stuck with it!
Hoping for positive things from it...
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Post by lankelly on Oct 17, 2015 21:34:20 GMT
On a light hearted note....what about HamGran? X
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Oct 17, 2015 22:12:26 GMT
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Post by esty on Oct 17, 2015 22:12:26 GMT
Hammy grammy? Grammy Ham?
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Post by aprilshowers on Oct 17, 2015 23:01:17 GMT
See we should all be congratulating you on the forthcoming grandchild...but sadly with planet adotion nothing is ever that straightforward or simple...so on the up side you could just be called nanny plain and simple, hope that they mange and that you will be part of lo life. Welcome to the granny board ham.
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Post by moo on Oct 18, 2015 6:43:46 GMT
Congratulations Grammy xx
Hope all will be well.... its over to your place then for baby skweezing ... yay xxx
Xx moo xx
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Post by peartree on Oct 20, 2015 7:13:30 GMT
Oh ham! What a shocker for all but it is quite exciting to think of a new baby in the family Baba is what my friend is called for her grandchild. There are lots of nicknames about- ham sounds lovely!
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Post by ham on Oct 20, 2015 21:23:27 GMT
Thank you for your suggestions .still mulling them over but might wait till baby born. Both parents to be involved with adult mental health . Her dad been arrested for violence and they live there. So not sure if there is enough cause for concern. All I know is they are not moving in with me
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