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Post by aprilshowers on Oct 15, 2015 10:44:50 GMT
So its been about 3 weeks since middly told us she was expecting, as in her normal drama way she had to go to A&E the day after she came round with stomache pains, they told her she was further along than she thought and arranged an early scan...this she announced all over facebook, I contacted her said I would skip work and take her, she says no she is going alone on the bus, she tells me that early scan shows baby ok and she is about 8 weeks or there abouts, she was no show at ours twice, when I finally got hold of her she said it was bf fault as he would not drop her round, that is a LIE we offered to go and get her or send a cab. Since then we have managed to pin her down to a few questions, according to her she or her SW did not attend college meeting and they have written to her stating that as no one turned up she is out she can apply for next year but would have had to completed behaviour course. Then she says that the SW took her to the scan, none of this is ringing true with me, she has not spoken with her aunt (she was seeing her every week for shopping and lunch) for over a month and we cant get any real answers from her. So my bovine excrement meter is running on high, sadly she has done stuff like this in the past, she does not see how it affects others around her....all I can do is wait and see.
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Post by mooster on Oct 15, 2015 14:49:08 GMT
Oh dear - I know only too well being in the mire of misdirection and bovine excrement from all directions. The waiting it all out seems never ending and when there is fresh air and you take a breath then the funny smell appears again!
Sending you gentle hugs to help you keep strong and maintain your sanity.
Mooster x
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Post by aprilshowers on Nov 11, 2015 9:33:23 GMT
Well thhe answer is that she is indeed prgnant baby due May 2016, she is still all over the place and recently her bf had to call the police as she refused to get out of care because he said no to a cigarette and he was llate for work. they are still together...just about...he is still supporting her with the pregnancy but not sure how much more he can take, she is still jobless/out of education and we have no idea what is going to happen about her accommodation...she seems to think that they are going to give her a 2 bed flat...I doubt it. so we will do what we can for her but I am in dread of the future for both of them.
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Post by flutterby on Nov 11, 2015 9:56:24 GMT
What a worry for you. No wise words. ((Hugs))
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Post by bop on Nov 11, 2015 15:46:26 GMT
((Hugs))
I hope she can find a positive way through this x
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Post by larsti on Nov 11, 2015 16:49:35 GMT
((((((Aprilshowers)))))))
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Post by mayan on Nov 11, 2015 17:18:46 GMT
Gentle hugs April - look after yourselves through this worrying time.
Love and strength
Mxx
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