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Post by aprilshowers on Jan 1, 2015 11:43:22 GMT
Middly was able to spend two nights at our home.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 1, 2015 11:49:23 GMT
Fab news April, so pleased for you xx
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Post by corkwing on Jan 1, 2015 14:33:10 GMT
Sending you hugs, April. I know it's good but I'm sending you hugs for the loss behind your post.
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Post by shadow on Jan 2, 2015 18:00:19 GMT
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Post by knight on Jan 2, 2015 21:45:30 GMT
Big steps, hopefully you'll start to see a little more of those steps x
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Post by peartree on Jan 3, 2015 18:45:50 GMT
Good small steps , right direction too! X
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Post by serrakunda on Jan 4, 2015 14:44:42 GMT
Moving in the right direction, hope it keeps going
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Post by kizim on Jan 4, 2015 15:44:06 GMT
gives me hope....have not seen enigma since the beginning of September....have not spoken since mid December...she seems to have burnt her boats and is full of hate towards us right now....hoping space and time will work some magic. How did your semi reconcilliation come about Aprilshowers?
Jofran
x
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Post by mooster on Jan 4, 2015 16:21:03 GMT
Thinking about everyone in a similar situation, little steps are good, have realistic hopes, so not what I imagined motherhood to be!
Keep looking after yourselves.
Mooster x
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Post by aprilshowers on Jan 5, 2015 23:08:04 GMT
Kizim.. the long version...if ever I write it will explain how it all got to this stage, but the reconciliation with middly was mainly due to me listening to what she wanted....ie I kept away, but provided food etc, hubby keeping in touch...it has always worked that way with middly he was/is the harmony in our lives and the support of my sister who tells it as it is....if you want any type of xmas then you need to make peace with your mother and there will be no going round there to unleash your demons on her...thanks sis, but it worked for us, and she could manage the two days and she knew that plan b was always there if she could not manage staying with us.
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