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ABH
Jul 4, 2014 18:27:56 GMT
Post by haze on Jul 4, 2014 18:27:56 GMT
Youngest has a broken finger courtesy of her sister.
They were doing what they always do and oldest lashed out & kicked her. Then they both lied & said she's shut it in the door which she clearly hadn't. One trip to A&E later & youngest has actually got a broken knuckle from having her finger bent backwards by the kick. Been told it could be three months or more for it to heal - serious as the back plate is broken so nothing to stop finger bending backwards & becoming deformed.
All oldest can think about is how 'its not fair' that youngest is getting lots of attention & she has to do the chores as youngest now can't. Never mind the fact SHE has committed ABH. I am so sick of it.
Advice is ignored & stupidity reigns. Then the blame game starts & somehow its my fault for leaving them on their own for a princely 3 minutes. That's all it took & people wonder why I keep them supervised so closely.
15 and practically 13 with not an iota of common sense between them. Heaven help us.
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ABH
Jul 4, 2014 18:57:53 GMT
Post by moo on Jul 4, 2014 18:57:53 GMT
Can't top that Pluto....
So I'll just send you hugs haze & ask Pluto to buy 2 bunches.... 1 from me
Our children are just bonkers aren't they!??
Just come in from adjudicating with boys on bikes.... baa still thinks they can be bumper cars & not hurt each other.... I give up....skweek is always the bumped victim...arrrggggghhhhh.....
xx. moo. Xx
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ABH
Jul 8, 2014 22:45:02 GMT
Post by greyspeckledhen on Jul 8, 2014 22:45:02 GMT
Sounds so much like my two - blame is always the priority for them. Much love to you. xxx
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ABH
Jul 9, 2014 19:10:48 GMT
Post by damson on Jul 9, 2014 19:10:48 GMT
Very similar to ours. 2 karate strikes to AS's head were almost the coup de grace. AS survived, but AD went into foster care. We realised that it was about 30 seconds for brain damage, and stopped trying to keep them in one house Usual denial, blame, minimise, get angry routine.
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ABH
Jul 23, 2014 10:01:48 GMT
Post by caledonia on Jul 23, 2014 10:01:48 GMT
I have had to take DD to A&E several times as a result of 'playing' with DS that goes wrong. DS lets his anger build up and suddenly this pent up anger will be released and DD bears the brunt. He is always sorry after the event but annoyed that she gets the attention but neither of them seem to learn.
Cale X
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ABH
Jul 29, 2014 10:40:30 GMT
Post by haze on Jul 29, 2014 10:40:30 GMT
Nearly a month on and now we endure the constant 'I can't do anything for myself' whinging from youngest who refuses to acknowledge that if she hadn't been winding up her sister having gone into the room & refused to leave that she might not be wearing a splint. Oldest has been helping & helpful but she is not youngest's slave! The trauma bond is a nightmare as they are so destructive together.
At the weekend there was a huge meltdown as youngest refused to even attempt to wash her hair despite it being extremely manky. For the sake of P&Q I washed it for her but if I get grief about it from SS (as we once did when helping oldest with her hair) there will probably be a major meltdown on my part!
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ABH
Jul 30, 2014 11:10:24 GMT
Post by peartree on Jul 30, 2014 11:10:24 GMT
Hugs we do understand xxxxx
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