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Post by imp on Apr 4, 2014 11:16:57 GMT
Well, it's my official Grumpy day.
Family probably identified for my LO, sounds very positive, and LO certainly needs to move on.
It's just that the day I am given this information is always 'grumpy day'
By the time we are fully into meetings, planning etc I'm fine (though find Intros themselves exhausting) but this is my selfish day when I hate the thought of LO leaving.
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Post by nomoretears on Apr 4, 2014 12:42:41 GMT
Aw Imp, I understand totally. Give LO an extra hug tonight
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Post by mrmlegal on Apr 4, 2014 13:18:02 GMT
I can totally understand and never know how you guys can do this!!
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Post by moo on Apr 4, 2014 16:17:22 GMT
Aww imp grump away gal....
Your love for your l/o's is so huge & obvious to all who read your posts..... You would not be you if you didn't struggle at the off.... But even by tomorrow you will be sooo happy for l/o.... You will just have to start the Xtra skweezes right now!!
Xx. moo. Xx
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Post by serrakunda on Apr 4, 2014 19:07:11 GMT
Glad to hear LO has probably found a forever family, but you have taken care of her for many months now and she sounds like such a sweetie. You have given her a fantastic start. You will miss her, I think you are allowed a little grump. Bet she is getting extra cuddles now
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2014 19:35:56 GMT
You grump away Imp.
We know you'll bounce back and will be so happy for gorgeous much loved LO, once you get used to the idea.
Hugs xx
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Post by loadsofbubs on Apr 4, 2014 19:36:54 GMT
Had my 'grumpy day' on Tuesday Imp, amidst the current trauma of the bbs saga, on top of a 4 dose migraine. didn't take it well! but know its the right thing for him to move on even if I have reservations about the family chosen (nothing personal about them, just the family make up is not what I wanted for squishy munchkin). am now prepping for the LAD and making tentative plans for intros (at least two months away!), just as a heads up to prospective and current adopters that foster carers twiddle fingers and pace floors around this point in the process too (over prepping is my way of thumb twiddling and floor pacing!).
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2014 19:47:49 GMT
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Post by chotimonkey on Apr 4, 2014 19:54:36 GMT
Hugs... To you both, lucky Los to have had their FC time with such fabulous people xx
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Post by knight on Apr 4, 2014 22:30:01 GMT
Ahh, IMP: I'd have a grumpy week, never mind a grumpy day; it must be so hard, I couldn't do what you do. Glad a family has been found for LO: hugs to you x
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Post by loadsofbubs on Apr 5, 2014 7:36:04 GMT
jmk where did you see those? I must have one!! (or several in different sizes and colours!)
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2014 8:24:07 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2014 9:13:15 GMT
Sorry Imp - Seem to have taken over your thread.  Hope these cute onsies help you to feel less grumpy. xx In fact you could get some printed with "Gorgeous much loved wanted LO" on them. Now that would be a fab present for her new parents!  Think I might go into business!! - Personalised onsies by jmk  |
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Post by loadsofbubs on Apr 5, 2014 11:00:59 GMT
I hadn't realised either til a friend pointed it out when I copied the pic to my fb page! sooo cute and as I call all my babies squishy's appropriate too!!  |
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Post by imp on Apr 5, 2014 14:14:28 GMT
Grumpy day over, just enjoying LO and thinking about what I need to sort out ready for the move---including the spring/summer clothes that are beginning to be worn now, and more will be needed before June
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2014 15:47:50 GMT
You know it's for the best Imp and what you want for gorgeous wanted one, but I don't suppose it makes it any easier to let go.
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Post by imp on Apr 5, 2014 20:17:29 GMT
I'm fine now, into the 'privilege to be part of making a new family ' mode, which is honestly how I view letting my LOs go.
I suppose this post is the very beginning of my Intro diary, because this is where it really begins
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Post by moo on Apr 6, 2014 6:13:52 GMT
Oohhhh imp did I hear intro diary.... You know me .... What am I like.... Love intro diary's.... Roll on June....
xx. moo. Xx
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Post by loadsofbubs on Apr 6, 2014 8:59:41 GMT
you're in luck then Moo coz there'll be two fc intro diaries in June!!
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Post by imp on Aug 14, 2014 22:49:43 GMT
Had forgotten about this post until I was scrolling through this evening.
Well, my Grumpy Day has come back to bite me.
Unfortunately misunderstood and seen as my being obstructive and difficult, despite my ability to 'get over it' after a few days----and well before we get into meeting Adopters and Intros.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2014 5:11:39 GMT
Hugs x
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Post by amberle on Aug 15, 2014 5:56:29 GMT
Good luck Imp with meetings this week..and sending you hugs xx
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