BM pregnant, and other stuff

Would it be possible to arrange some support for them eg some kind of counselling so its available when they get the news? Or could a pasw actually deliver the news - on the grounds that the messenger tends to get shot - if you think you might be the focus of any fall out?

We had to give our dd bad news when she was 9. She did take it badly and it was an issue that recurred regularly over the next couple of years. Her anger wasn't directed at us but of course we had to deal with the behaviour and her sorrow. In hindsight I would have at least sought some professional advice over the best way to tell and manage the repercussions.

Thank you for your thoughts.

DD1's secondary has good pastoral care which she already uses a bit. But of course they aren't experts in adoption. On the other hand they are there when she needs them, rather than a fixed appointment time. She did have some adoption counselling around 18months ago (working through thoughts about direct contact), but I'm not really sure how helpful it really was for her.

DD2's primary also has ELSA support and again is on tap. DD2 isn't very fluent/articulate but she does feel stuff. Today they had to draw 'their hearts desire' (doing Harry Potter - mirror of Erised) and she says she drew her BM.

I don't think they will 'shoot the messenger'. But it will bring up worries about BM coping with sibling, feelings of being forgotten / replaced, desire for direct contact and who knows what else.

We don't have a PASW - we've never needed one, and we are now 7 years (almost) from placement.
We have floated the idea of BM having another baby before, because she is now in long term stable relationship, and they were OK with the btheory, but the practice is another matter.
We were matched and placed with the same LA, but it isn't where we live, so I guess a PASW would come from our home area, which is a shame as they don't know the whole backstory, whereas our placing LA has much more knowledge.
We aren't going to be officially told until the next contact letter in a few weeks, so we have some time to think about how to handle all this.

Quick update. Thank you for all the suggestions.
Sadly we recently got a follow up call from the SW, and BM lost the baby.
Luckily the girls had not yet been told about the pregnancy.
So although we may have to deal with this in the future, it won't be imminent.