yes DS arrived 6.30am sunday morning...the only day we get a lie in, disheveld, dirty, tired..so very tired, he slept all day in the lounge, I asked him to stay for dinner, then asked if he wanted to spend the night here....oh yes please mum, everyone has gone and they have other plans...I have been really stupid...now he is a real charmer when the need is there so we are taking it slowly, but today he did go to the housing dept to tell them he is homeless and he did go to the bank to sort out his account....he even took the call from the training centre but could not speak and when he tried to call them back there was no answer...he has not however done anything about the JSA but two nearly three things without me nagging is good in my books.
so we have to wait and see how long it takes him to get sorted or to ship out again.
Mum to 3. DS, Bigly (21), DD, Middly (19), & DD, Littly (18) with sibling trauma bond, (placed at 8, 6, & 5) none of them are living with us anymore, some contact with all of them but very much on their terms. Grandparents and enjoying it.